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New York Times - By Jack Nicas July 28, 2019
Facebook Connected Her to a Tattooed Soldier in Iraq. Or So She Thought
By Jack Nicas July 28, 2019
FORT PIERCE, Fla. - On a Monday afternoon in June 2017, Renee Holland was draped in an American flag at Philadelphia International Airport, waiting for a soldier she had befriended on Facebook.
The married 56-year-old had driven two hours from Delaware to pick him up. Their blossoming online friendship had prompted her to send him a care package and thousands of dollars in gift cards. She also wired him $5,000 for plane tickets to return home.
Now she was looking for a buff, tattooed man in uniform, just like in his Facebook photos. But his flight was not on the airport arrivals board. Then a ticket agent told her the flight didn't exist.
From there, Ms. Holland said, it was a daze. She walked to her car, with "Welcome Home" written on the windows, and sobbed. She had spent much of her family's savings on the phantom soldier. "There's no way I can go home and tell my husband," she remembered telling herself. She drove to a strip mall, bought sleeping pills and vodka, and downed them.
The man in the Facebook pictures had no idea who Ms. Holland was. His real identity was Sgt. Daniel Anonsen of the Marine Corps, and he had joined the social network a decade earlier to keep in touch with friends and family in Maryland. Now he was contending with dozens of Facebook impostor accounts using stolen photos of him at the gym, at his brother's wedding and in Afghanistan.
"For every one that I deleted, there was 10 more that were popping up," he said. "It turns my stomach."
"There's no way I can go home and tell my husband," Renee Holland said she thought to herself.
Ms. Holland and Mr. Anonsen represent two sides of a fraud that has flourished on Facebook and Instagram, where scammers impersonate real American service members to cheat vulnerable and lonely women out of their money. The deception has entangled the United States military, defrauded thousands of victims and smeared the reputations of soldiers, airmen, sailors and Marines. It has also sometimes led to tragedy.
The scheme stands out for its audacity. While fraud has proliferated on Facebook for years, those running the military romance scams are taking on not only one of the world's most influential companies, but also the most powerful military - and succeeding. Many scammers operate from their phones in Nigeria and other African nations, working several victims at the same time. In interviews in Nigeria, six men told The New York Times that the love hoaxes were lucrative and low risk.
"Definitely there is always conscience," said Akinola Bolaji, 35, who has conned people online since he was 15, including by posing on Facebook as an American fisherman named Robert. "But poverty will not make you feel the pain."
Facebook has long had a mission to "connect the world." But in the process, it has created a global gathering place where the crooks outnumber the cops.
For digital criminals, Facebook has become a one-stop shop. It has plenty of photos of American service members. Creating an impostor account can be easy. Facebook groups for single women and widows are full of targets. Scammers can message hundreds of potential victims. And they congregate in their own Facebook groups to sell fake accounts, Photoshopped images and scripts for pulling off the cons.
"There are so many people out there that are lonely, newly divorced, maybe widowed," said Kathy Waters, head of a group called Advocating Against Romance Scams. "Everybody wants somebody to love and to listen to them and hear them. And these scammers know the right words to say."
Akinola Bolaji, 35, in Lagos, Nigeria, said he has posed on Facebook as an American fisherman named Robert.
Facebook said it requires people to use their real identities on its sites. To eliminate impostor accounts, it has invested in technology and more human reviewers. The company works with the authorities to prosecute scammers. Billions of fake Facebook accounts have been blocked over the past year, the company said, though its estimate for the number of active fakes has steadily risen to about 120 million. It declined to disclose a figure for Instagram.
"That job is not finished and we are committed to sharing our progress," Facebook said in a statement.
Kim Joiner, a deputy assistant to the secretary of defense who oversees the military's social media accounts, said her team works with Facebook to remove impostors and was pleased with the company's response. "I'm absolutely satisfied,' she said.
When shown that searches by The Times for three top American generals on Facebook and Instagram had yielded more than 120 impersonators, Ms. Joiner said it was "disturbing." She said she did not know why the fakes were not eradicated.
"I mean, the numbers are astounding," she said.
'My wife'
To her friends and family, Ms. Holland was known as trusting and impulsive. Born in Philadelphia, she had spent time in Arizona and Missouri, working as a gardener and in an auto shop. She met her fifth husband, Mark Holland, when she offered him a ride off the side of the road.
In 2001, she moved to Delaware to care for her sick mother. When her mother died in September 2016, Ms. Holland found herself depressed and with free time. She noticed her sister glued to her smartphone, scrolling through Facebook. So she bought a smartphone, too, and created a Facebook profile.
A few weeks later, Ms. Holland got a Facebook message from a stranger. The profile showed a man in uniform named Michael Chris. He told her he disarmed bombs in Iraq.
A selfie of Mr. Anonsen that impostor accounts used on Facebook and Instagram.
Ms. Holland said she initially felt uneasy, but the conversation flowed. Mr. Chris told her about life at war. She made him laugh.
"He kept saying, 'You're really funny. And you make it easier for me just to know that somebody is at home that I can talk to," she said. "How cool is this that I could really make somebody feel better?"
Over several months, their relationship deepened. Ms. Holland said she felt motherly. Mr. Chris began calling her "my wife."
What Ms. Holland did not know was that the man in Mr. Chris's photos was actually Mr. Anonsen - and that his images were all over the internet.
Mr. Anonsen grew up in suburban Maryland, about two hours from Ms. Holland's Delaware home. The oldest of four boys, he said he had "wanted to be in the military since the day I could remember." After graduating high school in 2006, he joined the Marines.
In 2010, while browsing Facebook, he discovered hundreds of unsolicited messages from women he did not know. Many said they loved him. They asked why, after months of correspondence, he was not responding. They implored him to write back.
Confused, Mr. Anonsen searched for his name on Facebook and found dozens of impostor accounts. The problem quickly mushroomed. The women who thought he had duped them harassed his parents online. A new real-life girlfriend grew suspicious.
"She started questioning everything about what I was doing," said Mr. Anonsen, now 31. "It actually ended our relationship."
Mostly searching variations of his name, The Times found 65 profiles on Facebook and Instagram that used Mr. Anonsen's photos. When The Times reported the fakes to the sites, 24 were removed over more than six months.
Many more accounts have used Mr. Anonsen's photos with different names. One used the name Michael Chris - and began messaging Ms. Holland in late 2016.
Several months into their online chats, Mr. Chris asked Ms. Holland for money. She bought him iTunes gift cards so, he said, he could buy more minutes on his cellphone. She sent money for beer for his birthday. And she paid for medicine for what he said was a sick daughter, Annabelle, in California.
A boarding pass that was edited to include the false flight details the scammer gave Ms. Holland.
In June 2017, she wired $5,000 for Mr. Chris and a friend to fly to Philadelphia from Iraq. She sneaked the money from a pile of cash she and her husband hid in their bedroom, which represented their life savings. Mr. Chris promised to pay her back when he got there. He never arrived.
That was when Ms. Holland took the sleeping pills and vodka. Days later, she awoke in a hospital bed. "You open your eyes, and the person you didn't want to face the most is sitting next to you," she said. "Mark."
Mr. Holland knew about his wife's Facebook friend. An Army Airborne veteran himself, with tours in Honduras and South Korea, he once helped Ms. Holland prepare a care package of snacks, underwear and foot powder for Mr. Chris. (The package was returned.) Now he said he realized his wife's relationship with this man had gone further than he understood.
"I had a lot of anger," Mr. Holland, 53, said in an interview last year. "But I also had a little bit of compassion because I knew how bad she felt."
When Ms. Holland returned home from the hospital, her relationship with her husband and her then 82-year-old father, whom she was caring for, was strained. One person kept talking to her: Mr. Chris.
"He wanted to make it up to me," she said. "He was going to sit there, look my husband in the eye and tell him how sorry he was and pay him back."
"How cool is this that I could really make somebody feel better?" Ms. Holland said in an interview about messaging Michael Chris.
Ms. Holland said she had been convinced that it was a scam. But Mr. Chris swore to her that he had been delayed by a military operation. She received an email from someone claiming to be Gen. Stephen Townsend of the Army, confirming the story. There were soon new photos of Mr. Chris injured in war, documents showing he was due big insurance payments and promises she would be reimbursed for more than she had lost.
She just needed to get him home.
Twice more, Ms. Holland sent money for airfare, partly with credit cards, without her husband's knowledge. Mr. Chris never showed.
The Hollands lost $26,000 to $30,000. To start afresh, they moved to Fort Pierce last year.
But the strains remained. Mr. Holland was arrested on domestic violence charges in August 2018, according to a police report. Ms. Holland dropped the charges. She said in an interview last year that there had been another incident in 2017.
On Dec. 23, 2018, Mr. Holland shot and killed Ms. Holland and her father at their new home. Mr. Holland then turned the gun on himself.
The St. Lucie County Sheriff's Office said Mr. Holland left no indication of motive.
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Out of their hands
By the end of 2017, Mr. Anonsen had quit Facebook and Instagram in frustration.
He estimated that he had reported roughly 200 impostor accounts to Facebook. The company removed some, but said many didn't violate its rules. When he sent messages to Facebook pleading for help, he received automated responses.
Mr. Anonsen told his platoon commanders about the issue, then his battalion's intelligence officers. All said it was out of their hands.
"I thought military intelligence would be able to type a couple of zeros and ones and it would all go away, but it's not that simple," said Mr. Anonsen, who left the military last year and now works on a ship in the Gulf of Mexico.
His experience reflects the futility of stopping military romance scams: No one appears to be able to help.
Mr. Anonsen left the military last year and now works on a ship in the Gulf of Mexico.
"I don't know what else we can be doing," said Ms. Joiner, the Defense Department official. She called Facebook impostors "the new norm" and said the Pentagon combats them with education and reporting fake accounts to Facebook.
On Facebook and Instagram, The Times recently found more than 120 accounts impersonating three of the military's highest-ranking generals. One Instagram account posing as Gen. Joseph F. Dunford Jr., chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff, had posted a photo of a child in a hospital bed, asking for donations to Nigeria via Western Union.
Ms. Joiner said when the Pentagon reported fakes, Facebook took them down. Yet when The Times reported 46 of the accounts to Instagram, the site responded within 24 hours that none violated its rules, without explaining why.
The Times later provided the list of impostors to the Pentagon. Four months later, 25 accounts were still active.
"I just don't know how to influence it more than we are," Ms. Joiner said.
The Army's Criminal Investigation Command, which investigates crimes involving Army personnel, said it fields calls from hundreds of victims of romance scams a month. But it said its investigators cannot look into those reports because the perpetrators and victims are civilians.
"Our jurisdiction stops there," said Chris Grey, a spokesman for the division. He said they distribute public warnings and urge service members to protect their identities.
There are no exact figures on how many service members and civilians have been affected. The F.B.I. said it received nearly 18,500 complaints from victims of romance or similar internet scams last year, with reported losses exceeding $362 million, up 71 percent from 2017.
The F.B.I. investigates a fraction of those reports, said James Barnacle, head of the F.B.I.'s money laundering unit. Many victims lose a few thousand dollars, and "it's really hard for an agency like the F.B.I. to work something that low, just because there's so many cases that come in our door," he said.
Facebook said it constantly removes impostor accounts with the help of software, human reviewers and user reports. It's software also scans for scammers and locks accounts until owners can provide proof of identity. It has a video warning people of scams.
The hoax has created a brigade of victims' advocates. One is the group Advocating Against Romance Scams, run by Ms. Waters, a health care worker from Fresno, Calif., and Bryan Denny, a retired Army colonel.
"These scammers know the right words to say," said Kathy Waters, head of a group called Advocating Against Romance Scams.
Since 2017, they have met five times with Facebook and with 11 separate congressional offices to lobby for a law to hold social media sites responsible for such scams.
Since last year, Facebook has used Colonel Denny in tests of a new system to quickly remove impostors of commonly impersonated service members. He provided Facebook with 51 photos that his imitators used. Months later, he said, the fakes still showed up.
In an email to Ms. Waters and Colonel Denny last year, a Facebook spokeswoman wrote, "I understand what it must look like to you guys. I hope we can redeem ourselves."
Finding Michael Chris
Ms. Holland left behind a trail of clues about Mr. Chris.
It started with receipts from Western Union and MoneyGram, which wire money around the world. Those revealed that Ms. Holland had not sent money directly to Mr. Chris, but to people in places like New Mexico and Puerto Rico.
Mr. Chris had told Ms. Holland they were "Army agents." In reality, the F.B.I.'s Mr. Barnacle said, they were probably "money mules" who laundered payments to confuse victims and the authorities. They could be accomplices or victims themselves.
One of the names on Ms. Holland's receipts was Maria in New Jersey. She spoke on the condition of anonymity to hide her involvement in the scam from her adult children.
Maria, a Greek immigrant 57, said she joined Facebook after her husband died in 2010. She quickly heard from men in uniform and developed a relationship with a supposed Army sergeant named Jacob. He showered her with compliments, called her "my Queen" - and then requested money.
Over two years, Maria sent roughly $15,000. She pawned her jewelry and stopped paying her mortgage. When her bank blocked her from sending more, her scammer persuaded her to forward a payment from someone else: Ms. Holland.
"Am tired disappointed depressed I lost everything I don't know what ales to do," Maria wrote to her scammer in messages reviewed by The Times.
"Just give me your trust one more time," the person wrote.
"Okay one time," Maria responded.
Messages between Maria and "Jacob Barrett." The texts have been altered to redact identifying information
In 2017, the bank foreclosed on Maria's house. To save her home, she increased her working hours at a factory to seven days a week.
"I don't know how humans can do that to another human," she said.
The 'Yahoo Boys'
All of the clues ultimately pointed to Nigeria.
Maria's receipts showed her payments went to someone in Nigeria named Victor Ohaja. That name had also appeared in Ms. Holland's receipts. In her final payment to Mr. Chris, $350 went to Mr. Ohaja. His connection to the person purporting to be Mr. Chris was unclear.
According to the Internet Protocol address for the person messaging as Mr. Chris - a kind of online identification number that can provide a rough location - he appeared to be in Lagos, Nigeria.
The Times messaged the person and presented its reporting about his scam. "Nice job," he responded. "No one is perfect." Then he logged off and has not returned.
Nigeria has become synonymous with online scams, fairly or not. Easy internet access, poverty and English are widespread. And those who learn the trade pass it to others, said the men who talked to The Times about the internet schemes.
They called their victims "clients" and themselves "Yahoo Boys," a nod to the online chat service Yahoo Messenger where love scams gained traction nearly 20 years ago. Now they ply their trade on Facebook and Instagram, they said, because that's where the people are.
Many 'Yahoo Boys' operate out of cyber cafes
Three Nigerian men, age 25, who spoke on the condition of anonymity, said they conned people on Facebook to pay for their education at Lagos State University.
They said they previously made $28 to $42 a month in administrative jobs or pressing shirts. With love hoaxes, the money was inconsistent but more plentiful. One estimated he made about $14,000 in two years; another took in $28,000 in three years.
Nigerian authorities have publicized raids on Yahoo Boys, but the scammers said they do not worry. Some said they paid bribes to evade arrest.
Facebook was becoming tougher on their profession, they added, but Instagram was easy to elude. If their accounts were blocked, they bought new ones; a six-month-old profile cost about $14, one said.
Adedeji Oyenuga, a senior lecturer in criminology at Lagos State University who has studied Yahoo Boys, said Nigeria's older generation largely rejects the scammers, but many youths embrace them. "Girls would rather date a Yahoo Boy," he said.
The trail of Ms. Holland's and Maria's money led finally to Owerri, a city of 1.2 million people in southern Nigeria.
A bank in Owerri, Nigeria, where Victor Ohaja picked up some of the money sent by Renee Holland and Maria
During his cash pickups at banks in Owerri, Mr. Ohaja left four nearby addresses and three phone numbers, according to an official at a money-transfer company, who declined to be identified because the information was confidential.
There was another name. Maria's scammer had once instructed her to send a package to an Orji James Ogbonnaya at a different Owerri address. Her scammer also sent a phone number for Mr. Ogbonnaya that was the same number that Mr. Ohaja left during one of his pickups.
In Owerri, the addresses led to dead ends: a convenience store, an electronics shop, a DHL location and an office building.
"There's no name like that here," said Peace Benjamin, the building's security officer. "It's a trick. Don't you understand?"
When The Times tried the phone numbers, one left by Mr. Ohaja was disconnected; another went to a lecturer at the local university, who expressed confusion. The number linked to both Mr. Ohaja and Mr. Ogbonnaya was answered by a deep-voiced man who identified himself as Mr. Ogbonnaya. He hung up when he learned The Times was calling.
"Please. I don't know you. I don't have any information related to what you're looking for," he texted later. "Don't bug me. I really need some peace."
That night, Mr. Ogbonnaya called back. He denied any connection to Yahoo Boys. "I'm just a delivery man," he said.
Last month, the same man answered the phone again.
"I don't know anybody like that," he said, when referred to as Mr. Ogbonnaya. "I'm Chris. You can call me Chris."
Jack Nicas reported from Fort Pierce, Fla.; Washington, D.C.; New York; Seattle; San Francisco; Belton, Mo.; and Lagos and Owerri, Nigeria. Bukky Omoseni and Mayowa Tijani contributed reporting from Lagos. Tony Iyare contributed reporting from Owerri. Susan Beachy contributed research.
Jack Nicas covers technology from San Francisco. Before joining The Times, he spent seven years at The Wall Street Journal covering technology, aviation and national news.
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