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Latest Update - Advocating Against Romance Scams
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Published on Sun Feb 02 01:08pm
MEETING DATE: January 30, 2020
On January 30, 2020, at 1:00pm PST, Bryan and I had our eighth call with the Legislative Director (LD) from Representative Kinzinger’s office. The subject once again, revolved around the safety and security amongst our platforms and how social media needs to be responsible for what they allow to be posted upon their site. We are all still in agreement that the current laws are expired in the realm of technology (such as Section 230 of the Communication Decency Act). We are also on the same page that something needs to be done sooner than later. That being said, please know they are working diligently on a change within the laws, and we have once again offered our time and expertise with anything they may be working on.
When we inquired again what more we can do to help any change along, we were told that the letters, and show of any kinds of support are key. The pleas for change, the stories from victims and families are all tools that can bring new laws to light. Congress needs to see and hear the harm the scams cause their constituents including on a global scale. You can find the link below to the post on our Facebook page with the information as to where you can send your letters!
We also were informed that the Legislative Director would like to have another call with us within the next week or two for a follow up on what’s to come. Bryan and I were, again, very thankful for the time the LD gave to us along with the information to pass on.
The call lasted approximately 40 minutes.
You will be able to find all past and future meeting updates in the “Notes” section on our Facebook page and on our website at
Our Cause
Sgt. Stuart James
Lt. Jeffrey Miller
Medic Sally Clarke
Sgt. Jason Jordan
Maj. Gordon Hannett
Scammers, especially Military Romance Scammers are all over social media networks. These scammers use pictures, names and valor's of men and women who are actively serving in our military, retired or are deceased. The scammers are aware how highly Americans think and feel for their military and they use this to pull at the heart strings of vulnerable men & women.
Working with retired Colonel Bryan Denny from the United States Army whose pictures, name and children have been used in the scammers story, We have come to realize just what an epidemic this is. Unfortunately, many of the victims are afraid, ashamed, and embarrassed to come forward. Many just want to forget about the scam and move on with their lives. That is why we bring this petition to you.
Due to the overwhelming numbers of fraudulent accounts throughout social media and the unidentified number of victims, we all need to be the voice. Social Media has a great amount of power, and with power comes an abundance of responsibility.
Our Battle
Because of the majority of romance scammers residing in other countries, the United States has very little jurisdiction over these criminals, therefore we must work from where and what we know, and that is through the United States and our legislative system.
We are looking to encourage social media sites to provide more public service announcements by way of television, movie theater ads, magazines, radio, etc. and provide additional man power to their fraudulent account tracking system as well as upgrading their security system to recognize these duplicated accounts that are recreated literally moments to hours after being deleted.
Facial recognition does not solve all problems, especially when these scammers are using generic pictures (flowers, hearts etc.) on their profiles and cyber security is unable to recognize this discrepancy.
Our Proposal - Advocating For You
Section 230
Washington, D.C.
U.S. Congress
Letters to Congress
Public Outcry
We are working hard to find a Champion to take on our proposal to amend Section 230 of the Communication Decency Act of 1996 with the focus on identity theft. When this law was put into place 20 years ago there was little to no thought of the extreme type of crimes that could and or would be posted onto the social media platforms.

This law gives social media a "get out of jail free" card, in other words, they are not held responsible for anything posted to their site by their own consumers. These sites are used as breeding grounds, and the social media companies are fully aware.

We are not people who promote regulation, however it is very obvious, in previous news stories and with our own investigation, that self regulation is not the answer to consumer safety and security. We are proposing routine technology upgrades, additional staff to match growing population and ongoing up to date education. Items that are not successfully being done under self regulation.
Personal Note
Having over an estimated 3500 volunteer/advocate hours not including our in person and or teleconference meetings, along with travel, We have no plans to cease this fight, but every intention to follow through until identity theft victims and scam survivors feel vindicated. We feel it is an honor and a privilege to be a voice for so many
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